From Adam Sandler's Grow Old With You

I wanna make you smile
Whenever you're sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
all I wanna do
is grow old with you

That was the lyric of Adam Sandler song, played in the end of his old fashioned movie, The Wedding Singer, which we could also see Billy Idol's appearance as himself.

Well, the song is great, I mean the lyric. But, this is not what I want to talk about in this posting.

One of my closest friends in the office, once introduced me to this song. Many years before, I already watched the movie and this kinda teared me, as I am a baby cry person.

And Yesterday, this friend was resigned from my office. He made this decision right after a lot of consideration. Alright, we planned together not to stay any longer there, maybe about 2 or 3 months later. So, this situation makes me feel left alone. He send me a private message which teared me hard. Well yeah, I know we still live here, in this same little town and we could meet as often as we like to. But, office wouln't be quite the same without him.

And accidentally, a couple minutes ago, when I wanted to be online over a cup of coffee, I heard that song. It's not like Rihanna's, which you could hear everywhere as a cellphone ringtones, or easily and oftenly played in the radio near by. Then I ask the operator to play that song once more. It makes me miss him so much to call him.

So, was it a sign?

I, myself, never believe in coincidence. But life is a circle, and aometimes it leaves us trapped in a big question.

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